What he might look like.

So I am creating this page as a focus or vision wheel.

To attract the kind of man I think I would like physically. It is really easy to say what you want and don't want physically. But the way someone looks and dresses, and holds themselves also conveys something about their manner, the activities they like.

You hear all kinds of things like, don't be superficial, everyone deserves a chance, you are limiting yourself by only looking for good looking men, the man you end up with may not look anything like you desired. These may all be true.

I also have dated some good looking men in the past. Could this also mean that good looking guys are players.

Perhaps .

But we have to start from somewhere right?

And I really don't think it hurts to know what you like. It does't mean you have to restrict yourself and rule out everyone who doesn't physically conform to this ideal. That is not the message I want to portray. I simply want to highlight that I know what I like and show you.

Further to this, it is better to set the bar high right? And focus on what you absolutely want, without being so stuck up that it isn't possible to lower the standards, but if you aim low you are always going to pool around in the mud.